I didn’t expect to get too fucked up because I had spent the day romanticizing about how much I loved the last girl I had just spent a night with, and how excited I was about the possible future we now might have together.
When we got to the bar my buddy Jay and I started drinking and commenting on the women around us when it happened:
Walking down the stairs came a group of 3 Asian girls. When John describes my reaction, he does so by saying “I’ve never seen that amount of excitement in your eyes, they were as wide as I’ve ever seen them–and you looked happy”.
The second I saw this one asian, she was really sweet looking and had a great body. I walked up to her. She is half-dancing with some guy, I assume she isn’t interested in him.
“You’re really cute, I think I wanna dance with you”. Completely direct, no openers, no opinion questions. I had been doing that stuff all weekend with Jay, and it WORKS. But fuck it, I had just fucked 2 girls in 2 nights, I was ON, I didn’t need it.

We started dancing, and I start doing classic push-pull game and it’s working beautifully…almost too easily.
I tell her we should go back to “our” (her) friends. I make friends with all her guy friends and tease her girlfriends playfully. The group loves me. The Asian girl (Jennifer) buys me drinks…
I get fairly drunk and I’m feeling great. I validating and then withdrawing, and doing it over and over again. Not only that, but I speak a bit of Chinese now (I’m taking a class) and I’m using that on her.

We get back to her friends place, and I maneuver everyone out of the living room so that we can have it alone (including one guy who did NOT seem to want to leave us alone). We start kissing and I’m slowly getting closer and closer over the course of the next 2 hours (she’s asian, this shit takes a while). We FINALLY get naked an I go down on her. And a bit of a side note here, I’m gonna toot my own horn here and say that recently I’ve gotten VERY GOOD at going down on girls. I really enjoy it, and I love making a girl cum, because that means she’s gonna want me to come back, and that means I’m getting a booty call set up. I like this style of altruism; it suits me.
I start going down on her and she is loving it, but still won’t let me fuck her, she’s being really withholding about it. So I start doing a REALLY good job, like my jaw is still sore even today. After 20 minutes she yells out “Fuck it, Just fuck me! Do it!”
No need to tell me twice. I grab a condom and put it on. A note: I noticed while I was finger-blasting her that she was tighter than usual, like more than just ‘asian-tight’, something wasn’t right. Whatever, I was too horny to put it together.
I put my dick in, and I feel something…familiar. Like I did the first time I fucked my ex-girlfriend Kristi–FUCK! THAT’S A HYMEN!
“OWW!!” she yells out. I pull out, I am RATTLED.
“Are you a virgin?”
“mmhmm” she says sadly.
“Fuck! Why the fuck didn’t you tell me this??! What the fuck is wrong with you?!? you JUST MET ME TONIGHT!”
“I’m sorry!”
I actually shook her at this point I was so upset with her.
“I NEVER would have pushed for sex if I knew you were a virgin” I tell her.
“We’re on your friends’ couch for godsake! And you don’t even know me! This is not how you want to be doing this” I am freaking out, I feel awful. My first time was a shitty experience and I feel bad that I’ve done something similar to this poor girl.

I tell her it’s alright, I’m just a little rattled. We kiss a bit more and cuddle and fall asleep. I wake up at 7am and am drenched in sweat. I walk over to the bathroom to wash my face. I look at myself in the mirror, and I look awful. A man who is physically (we were up til 5am) and emotionally (I fucked a virgin) exhausted. I look down at my hands…

There are thin streaks of dried red blood on my index and middle fingers.

Imagine me, leaning over a bathroom sink at 7am on a TUESDAY MORNING. Pussy blood on my hands and shame in my eyes.

I laughed. I just fucking had to. I was so fucking broken up, I just laughed about the the physical and moral disgustingness I had created for myself.

I ended up getting a ride to my house with her friend who wouldn’t leave us alone in her leaving room at 8 am when he was going to his morning class. I get home at 8:15 and Nicole sees the wreck that I am. I tell her I am never drinking again or hitting on another girl, ever. She tells me what I did to that girl was actually really nice, considering that I stopped it when I found out, and then scolded her for letting me do it.

It is now a week later and now a funny story. I have gone out 3 times since then and have done similar things, but this was by far the most eye-opening, shameful, and hilarious.

In the last month or so, I’ve accomplished a lot of goals with women that I’ve had for a long, long time. My whole life I wasn’t great with girls, and never really had any success. I told myself that one day, I’d learn to woo women, and not be so frustrated with my inability to be attractive.

I had read Alpha Male by David Deangelo and the Mystery Method and had known the basics behind attracting women; this whole idea of pushing them away in order to get women to chase you. I can confidently say that I was able to put all this into practice for the first time about a month ago.

I actually went “never getting laid unless I fucked a lagoon creature” to “calling up a hot girl to have sex before I had another hot girl I really cared about come over, in order to sexually disarm myself”.

And honestly, the biggest piece of advice is to stop thinking.
Thinking is worrying, and worrying is bad.

Don’t ever think “I wonder what she’s thinking about me?” or “I hope this goes well!” Thoughts like that are poison that will destroy your confidence. Just act, don’t think.

I do this thing now for all my classes where I purposely go to class 5 minutes late, and when I enter the room, I very slowly and calmly scan the room. I act like I don’t care that 70 people are looking at me; I act like I enjoy the attention. I take my time, I find a cute girl in the class with a space open beside her and I sit next to her. I say “hey” and confidently own my surroundings. It works great and I’ve met a lot of girls this way.

When I make eye-contact now, I don’t break until after a few seconds. I want girls to know that I’m checking them out, and I’m not embarrassed about it.

I have a few girls on the go now, and having others to fall back on has made me hugely more successful with the other two. Not only does it divide my attention three ways, so that I’m no longer waiting on them to text me (it takes me forever to get back to anyone). But it also makes me less worried about losing any of them, I’m more likely to take chances and say or do something that otherwise be too risky.

Men have known that confidence is the key to picking up women for years, but actually seeming confident can be difficult. You have to really believe it. At first I was just faking it, but now I’m actually believe that I am a guy who can get any girl he wants (Note: Unless they are superficial plastics, fuck those bitches).

Well that was long. If all that was too long winded, just remember this: Never think about your relationship with a woman, never ever worry about how she feels about you. Do what you want to do and remember the basics of game: Tease, push her away, and make her feel good with compliments and reassurance. But always remember to have an edge, and don’t be a ‘nice guy’. Never be embarrassed about your intentions unless its on your own terms.

1) She won’t kiss you if she’s not yet comfortable with you physically. Most guys make the mistake of not making enough of a physical connection out of a false worry that she might not like it. Escalate physical touching as soon as you meet her. Start with friendly arm  touching, teasing her with arm punches, etc. and work your way up to more romantic touching like holding her hand or putting your arm around her. You should have your mouth moving whenever you initiate a touch, to distract her conscious mind from what you’re doing.

2) Unless she signals that she’s getting uncomfortable, escalating physically is completely cool. Make it natural and coherent with your speech and flow with the sexual energy that you are surfacing in her.

3) If you’re in a club environment and looking for a make out or laying the foundations for a one-night-stand, amplify her attraction by using the push-pull approach both verbally and physically. Pull her close or dance with her, then push her away (as if you’re sick of her).

4) Use a kiss-close routine, such as Mystery’s kiss gambit:

Scenario A:
You: “Do you want to kiss me?”
Her: “Yes.”
Go for it.
Scenario B:
You: “Do you want to kiss me?”
Her: “Maybe.”
You: “Let’s find out.”
Then go for it.
Scenario C:
You: “Do you  want to kiss me?”
Her: “No.”
You: “Slow down – I didn’t say you could. It just looked like you had something on your mind.”

Then ask her again after progressing further with her emotionally.

5) In a more secluded environment like on a date, if you can’t think of a clever way to kiss her – just man up and kiss her. If she pulls away, don’t apologize. Just give her a very sexual look then try again later.

6) Women will rarely initiate the kiss. Looking back at the history of male and female interactions, not much has changed in terms of the pattern of courting – man pursues woman, woman tries to resist, man pursues woman,  woman gives in, man humps woman.

7) Do it sooner rather than later. The longer you wait to kiss her, the quicker the window closes (i.e. the dreaded friendzone).

Use these seven tips to start making out sooner. Happy hunting!

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